Is Comfort Destroying Your Faith?

Finding True Peace by Embracing Discomfort and Spiritual Growth

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In a world obsessed with convenience and ease, it's easy to become addicted to comfort. We surround ourselves with things that make life simpler and more enjoyable, but what if this relentless pursuit of comfort is actually sabotaging our spiritual journey?

There's a part of every man that wants to be useful. When someone brings me a problem, my brain works overtime to find a solution and apply a fix. That’s just how I’m wired. What happens when the problem-solving, solution-oriented man turns his attention to his own comfort?

Last week, my wife and I were discussing the differences in our natural tendencies.

This was one of those heart-to-heart conversations that only come from years of knowing each other deeply. We found ourselves comparing our approaches to life, particularly how I tend to seek out small comforts and focus on them, while my wife seems less inclined to do so. It got me thinking, why am I like this?

You see, for me, technology has made finding solutions to problems so much easier. After doing a little bit of research, I now have 12 different products that will solve my perceived problem.

If I were to purchase every item that could make my life easier, then I would have a house full of things that I never used, and my minimalist wife would be unhappy(to say the least).

The Pursuit of Comfort

Comfort, in its simplest form, is about finding ease and alleviation from pain or stress. For me, it's the little things—savoring a good cup of coffee, enjoying a moment of silence, or cozying up with a book. These small comforts can provide a sense of stability and peace in an often chaotic world.

But what drives our pursuit of comfort?

Here are a few possibilities:

Desire for Control

There are so many things in this world that I cannot control. My home, what’s in it, how it functions—those are things I can control. When I’m in control, there’s less anxiety and stress. Seeking to increase a sense of security and stability is a way I try to manufacture peace.

Perfectionism

I’ve worked with many people who think their surroundings are a reflection of who they are. This often triggers the need to have high standards and fear of judgment.

Past Experiences

If you’ve experienced instability or trauma in your life, you may seek to create a perfect, controlled environment to avoid feelings of chaos or helplessness. There could also be learned behavior if you grew up in an environment where constant improvement was emphasized.

Innate Personality Traits

Maybe you’re someone who is naturally detail-oriented and conscientious, driving you to make continuous improvements. You could also be a creative or innovative personality who thrives on finding new ways to improve and enhance their environment.

Seeking Fulfillment

Improving surroundings can provide a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, contributing to overall well-being. For some, the act of improving their environment can be a way to find purpose and meaning in their daily life.

Comfort in Scripture

The Bible has much to say about comfort, often linking it to God's presence and the community of believers. Here are a few key insights:

1. God as the Source of Comfort: The Bible repeatedly emphasizes that God is our ultimate source of comfort. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Paul writes, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."

2. Jesus' Promise of Peace: Jesus offers us a profound sense of peace and comfort. In John 14:27, He says, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."

3. Comforting One Another: As believers, we are called to comfort and support each other. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 encourages us to "encourage one another and build each other up."

The Uncomfortable Moments

Here’s a stark reality: Jesus never said we would be comfortable in this life.

In fact, the Bible often speaks to the value of discomfort as a means of growth and reliance on God.

It's important to remember that there are times when we are meant to be uncomfortable. These moments challenge us, push us out of our comfort zones, and lead to growth. James 1:2-4 tells us, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

These uncomfortable moments refine our character, deepen our faith, and prepare us for greater things. Embracing discomfort can lead to profound spiritual growth and a closer relationship with God.

Finding True Comfort in Jesus

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

There it is. Jesus said, “come to me.” This means that He should be the source of our comfort. When we allow Jesus to be the source of our comfort, He brings us something better: contentment.

"Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need." (Philippians 4:11-12)

What Can We Do?

As believers, understanding and embracing comfort in our lives can lead to deeper spiritual growth and strength.

Here are a few practical steps:

1. Seek God’s Presence: Make time each day to connect with God through prayer, meditation, and scripture reading. This can provide a profound sense of comfort and peace.

2. Find Your Comfort Zones: Identify the small things that bring you comfort and make them a regular part of your routine. Whether it's a quiet moment with a book or a walk in nature, these practices can be a source of strength.

3. Be a Comfort to Others: Look for opportunities to comfort and support those around you. Whether it's through listening, offering a helping hand, or simply being present, your actions can reflect God’s love and comfort.

4. Embrace Community: Engage with your faith community. Sharing in each other's joys and burdens can provide a collective comfort that strengthens everyone involved.

5. Embrace Discomfort: Recognize that discomfort can be a tool for growth. Embrace the challenges and allow them to shape and strengthen your faith.

I encourage you to reflect on the sources of comfort in your own life. How do you find peace and solace in the midst of life's challenges? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below, and let's build a community of support and encouragement.

Remember, comfort is not about escaping life's difficulties but finding strength and peace within them. Let's lean into God's comfort and extend that same comfort to others, even as we embrace the uncomfortable moments that lead to growth.